So my fiance has quite a few nieces and nephews and I have known most of them since they were little so they have been calling me aunt for years and we're all pretty close. I am also super close to my cousins and plan to include them as well. Anyone labeled cousin is on my side. Anyone labeled niece or nephew is my FH's side. I have included their first initials, ages, and the planned role. I have questions on what role R should play. We already have 1 MOH, 1 Best Man, 5 BM, 5 GM, and 1 Junior BM
KN (niece)--2 now, 3 wedding. Flower Girl
M (niece)--3 now, 4 wedding. Flower Girl
J (cousin)--1.5 now, 2.5 wedding. Sign Bearer
B (nephew)--4 now, 5 wedding. Sign Bearer
P (nephew)--7 now, 8 wedding. Escorting single grandma down aisle for processional
D (cousin)--9 now, 10 wedding. Grandma escort.
B (cousin)--15 now, 16 wedding. Grandma escort. (he's super shy and has autism. this is enough attention and role for him)
H (cousin)--6 now, 7 wedding. Escorting my mom down the aisle since my dad will be escorting me.
G (cousin)--13 now, 14 wedding. Bridesmaid.
KC (niece)-- 10 now, 11 wedding. Junior Bridesmaid.
B (niece)--5 now, 6 wedding. Program/Favor Attendant (will be passing out programs and favors)
R (niece)--8 now, almost 9 wedding. I want her to help B (niece), but I am afraid she is too old. Thoughts?