I would do a black/white/silver wedding. I don't know if you are going to be ringing in the New Year, but if you are, many of the noisemakers, hats and things are trimmed in silver, and are dark in color.
Wait what you are getting married in 10 years and planning now. WOW hunny I give you props for be patient I would be freaking out wanting it to be now lol. I agree with Carole Black/Silver/White and you could add gold and any other accent color you wanted. I'm having a gold and silver wedding.