This weekend my FH's sister confronted him (not me)about being a bridesmaid in our wedding. Mind you that I have already picked out the dresses and paid for flowers. Everything is almost done. She claims that it is tradition for her to be a bridesmaid! I didn't know that was true! I just think that her whole reason is to upstage me at my own wedding. I'm not the biggest fan of her and when we asked in Decemeber what part she wanted play in the wedding she said whatever we wanted. I don't want her as a bridesmaid , we aren't even friends!! I'm so mad!!