Lynnie
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Never have I ever... been a bridesmaid or groomsman

Lynnie, on March 26, 2019 at 11:05 AM

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Have you ever been a part of the wedding party before? Or never have I ever? Let's hear your wedding history! Photo by Megan Helm Photography in Sanger, CA Next Question: Never have I ever... gone to a bach party in Vegas! Back to the Beginning: Never Have I Ever!

Have you ever been a part of the wedding party before? Or never have I ever? Let's hear your wedding history!


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Photo by Megan Helm Photography in Sanger, CA


Next Question: Never have I ever... gone to a bach party in Vegas!

Back to the Beginning: Never Have I Ever!

100 Comments

  • Heather
    Dedicated July 2020
    Heather ·
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    I have not. I know I will be in the future and I was a flower girl when I was little.
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  • Marlena
    Expert June 2020
    Marlena ·
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    Never been a bridesmaid
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  • Katelyn
    Beginner August 2020
    Katelyn ·
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    I have been a bridesmaid twice, and a junior bridesmaid I think three times!

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  • Stephanie
    Super September 2021
    Stephanie ·
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    I have been a bridesmaid once, and a MOH twice!!!!

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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
    Natalia ·
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    Never have. I have recently been asked to be one, though!

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  • Katie
    Dedicated April 2021
    Katie ·
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    I have been a MOH once
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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I've never been a part of someone's wedding party but I imagine it can be tiring too. I've said to people before it's ok to say no when asked because it is time and money you have to dedicate to this commitment
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  • Danielle
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Danielle ·
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    I’ve never been a bridesmaid , but I was a flower girl at 10 years old!
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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    I've never been a bridesmaid, but I've been a flower girl

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  • Katelyn
    Expert October 2020
    Katelyn ·
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    Only once, in my sister’s wedding. Was actually a bit insulted at my brothers because he had all my siblings except me in his wedding party. My sister was my sister in-laws bridesmaids. My other two brothers were my brothers groomsmen.
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  • Erin
    VIP September 2023
    Erin ·
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    I've never been a bridesmaid, but the only people closest enough to me to ask haven't gotten married yet so there's still a chance xD

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  • Chelsie
    Devoted May 2020
    Chelsie ·
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    Ive never been a bridesmaid.

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated September 2019
    Jessica ·
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    Been a Jr. Bridesmaid. Does that count?
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  • Megan
    Expert October 2019
    Megan ·
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    Ive only been in one wedding. I was a MOH for my MOH (shes my best friend). She got married 8 years ago, so I was young and in college (20 and a sophomore). Honestly, i was so stoked for her big day that i made a mistake... and said yes to it. I should have let someone else be MOH. I lived kind of far and it was hard to be MOH on my budget and I know it stressed her out. I didnt really felt like a MOH until the day before her wedding.

    Her husbands aunt was being a... well, she wasnt being nice. We were decorating the hall and it was her first time really meeting me. At the time, I was pierced head-to-toe and she had a problem with that. Started yelling at my friend that she should have chose an "appropriate" MOH. We blew it off and started cleaning these previously used candleholders... one just wouldnt get clean and I tried every trick (freezing, scraping, etc). So we set it aside to finish the rest. The aunt LOST HER MIND! Finally, I told her she needed to back off and the candle holders were HER responsibility as decorator (she dubbed herself that) and she should have done this weeks ago or asked for help earlier because the bride had other stuff to do.

    The wedding day was beautiful though. The best man and I were friends and we got some fun shots that are still hanging on their wall. Oh, and I made the bride cry with my toast (happy tears).
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  • Ashley
    Super November 2020
    Ashley ·
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    I was my sister's maid of honor!

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  • Anna
    VIP October 2020
    Anna ·
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    2x a bridesmaid. And even a flower girl when I was 4.

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  • Jana
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Never been one before. I've been asked many times but the weddings never happened in the end.
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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    I have had the honor of being a bridesmaid & maid of honor many times
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  • Squeezy Bean
    Devoted June 2023
    Squeezy Bean ·
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    I have been a bridesmaid once, though I didn't have any duties. I did manage to rip my dress as I climbed out of the car though. 🙈
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  • Emilia
    Expert June 2019
    Emilia ·
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    I've been a witness once !

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