Mom and I had this long, drawn out discussion about how I want things that aren't reasonable. I told her there were plenty of things I could live without, but if time and money allow I would like to have them. I thought it might make an interesting topic. Here is the beginning of my list:
Non-Negotiable:
Groom (of course!)
Venue
Date
Colors
Favors
Custom made dresses for me and BMs
Brown suits
Negotiable:
Farewell brunch
Welcome bags
Cake (I would accept a less fancy cake, if need be)
Grooms cake (he doesn't care if we have one or not)
Pew lanterns
Cry packs
Bridal shower (this one is up to other people)
Powderoom baskets
Tossing things (birdseed, etc)
Please share yours!
