Hi all,
I have a lot of question marks with my father in law but I'd like some third party opinions on this. Maybe I could very well be so calculative but I feel that my Father in Law(FIL) is not as generous, helpful or at least, considerate in terms of house mortgage and now, wedding.I get a little bit cautious as my family side has been generous and helpful to our first home purchase and wedding planning. But my FIL has not ever once offer any cents which gets me a little concerned, especially now with the wedding where we told him nearly 6 months ago that he could bring 20 people and now he insisted to bring more, 60 people. With that request, he did not even offer to help in any thing and did not even consider that we're quite stressed out already with our monthly mortgage. I may be expectant and a little jealous to know that he financially at least offered to my partner's sister's first home and wedding but none to us. My partner is quite naive and doesnt have the heart to ask for financial help from his own parents either and I'm quite frustrated because our finance is really tight at this point with us planning to have a baby next yr. I also don't have the heart to ask his parents but there doesnt seem to be any grace from them either. I honestly feel a little bad for thinking like this but just want some opinion and advices. Thanks all in advance.
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