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RaylaSan
Expert February 2021

My wedding's only 60 days away, and I'm already getting so nervous

RaylaSan, on December 16, 2020 at 12:49 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 5
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Gosh my wedding's still two months away, but I'm already filled with so much anxiety.
Right now all I'm needing is a chance to write my worries away.


Ugh, first I have to worry about COVID, and just hope and pray my THIRD venue won't fail on me.


Then I have to hope that people and family will be comfortable enough to even attend the wedding.


I have to worry about getting one of my bridesmaids to even message me back.


I have to hope and pray nothing really bad fails on me, day of the wedding.


How are you brides dealing with your anxiety when it comes to the wedding? For me, I have my fiancee and one of my bridesmaids help cope with me. @_@ I just need to last till February, honestly. Work has also been stressing me out so much, I just really want the new year to come, I really need a break. I think the only good news we have is that the vaccine is finally here, and maybe just maybe the world will stop ending for just a moment.


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Latest activity by Lindsey, on December 16, 2020 at 5:23 PM
  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    *hugs*

    I'm so sorry you're anxious!

    Deep breath, and maybe take a day or two off planning? Just to give yourself a breather.

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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    I coped by downsizing my wedding significantly. Getting married outside and only having a single digit number of guests.
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    Try not to stress especially over Covid because you have no control over it. I know it's hard but try to take it one day at a time and just have the proper precautions in place for your wedding no matter how small it is. You got this!
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  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
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    Sending hugs! Like Yasmine stated, try your best to not stress over COVID, although it is hard to do so. Allow yourself to have time to breathe and relax, but also remind yourself that you have some great people behind you to support you!

    Since our wedding isn't until Jan. 2022, we haven't had much to stress over yet. We did have to cancel our engagement party, and we let the hosts know that pushing it till fall of next year to make it a couples shower is the best alternative. That did upset me, but I reminded myself that it's just ONE party and not the wedding, I'd rather have to reschedule that than my wedding day.

    Hopefully you get some comfort, and get to relax soon!

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  • L
    Dedicated May 2021
    Lindsey ·
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    I’m naturally anxiety-prone. I’m always stressed over tiny stuff and constantly worried. My wedding is still 5 months away and I’m constantly overthinking every tiny detail. I think the best thing someone has ever told me is that worrying and overthinking doesn’t help or change anything out of your control. It’s easier said than done, but just reminding yourself that worrying isn’t helping can sometimes help you relax a little and be a little more positive. Obviously the closer you get to your wedding day the more things you have to think about and get organized, but if you can afford just a day or two where you force yourself to not think about anything wedding related it could really be a nice mental break!
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