Well everything about this wedding, if it ever happens, is halfway untraditional. My fiance and i already have two children and are now planning our wedding. I brought it up to my parents about them helping with the bill (didn't say anything about them paying everything) and i was informed that they aren't going to help at all. I could understand it if they didn't have the money but they buy a brand new car every 2 years or so. My fiance is working as hard as he can, usually gone half a week at a time, but that only pays our bills. Our children are age 3 and 1 so they aren't in school yet and the jobs around my area basically end up paying for daycare alone. I don't know what to do, we absolutely cannot afford a wedding but I also don't like just being engaged.