I just need a bit of advice on what to do, i love my parents dearly and this is hard for me to even think about.
my parents have been around and around with me telling me about how this is their wedding...yes it is me getting married but they are paying for the whole wedding as in reception and ceremony. all is good but they will not entertain the fact that my fiancés mom would like to pay for the alcohol and the dj, they are all about it being about the "brides family giving her away" so they want to be responsible for it all. Every time I try to get them to talk to my FML they refuse as they don't see the reason to involve her with anything other then the décor. its not they don't like her or anything its they are seeing it as only there party or whatever.
i am struggling very hard to wrap my head around all of there logic and i cant even talk about my wedding to them without it being an argument or a fight with tears...basically they have been this way my entire life taking control...i have a hard time trying to let anything happening go. and I fear i will lose my parents through all this, this wedding planning is way harder on me then anyone as I'm trying to make everyone happy. both sides.
but i am at the point I'm about to call the whole thing off and cancel it all. to go be married in a court house and plan a party later.. thing with that is NO one in my family or his or even him and me will be happy getting married like that. I'm so sad hurt and stressed i don't know what to do.
any advice is helpful
