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Just Said Yes April 2018

My moh decided not to make it to my bachelorette..

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Jacqueline, on March 18, 2018 at 10:10 PM

So i had my bachelorette this weekend in PHX after changing plans because of my MOH. She is a teacher and had told us she was going to have to work half day friday which we all agreed it was fine. On Friday the day we were suppose to leave i ask her just to confirm our plans are still on to leave at 12 and she texts me telling me she didnt get a sub and she wont get off till 3..i got very upset and called my mom right away she told me that she thought i knew already because she had already told my mom amd my aunt that she was getting off at 3..i had no idea about this and i even saw her days before and she did not tell me anything until 2hours before we had planned to leave. My bridesmaid were pissed we all sacrificed our time and families to go and so we all decided to just go ahead and leave at scheduled time and have her catch up to us later which she then agreed she would. Friday night she lets me know she wont make it but she will be in PHX saturday. Well she bails and decides not come at all because she got pissed that we left her. My MOH is my cousin practically my sister and we live together btw. I had a blast with my girls and they made my time very special but now that im home i cant help but still feel upset with my MOH. Am i wrong for thinking of me for once and taking off without her?

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Master March 2018
Orchids · on March 19, 2018 at 3:24 PM
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I am not a teacher, but I do work in a job where you can't just take time off without leaving the rest of the team completely hosed, so my sympathies are with her. She could have thought she had a sub secured and it fell through last minute. She should have kept you in the loop, but I'd be inclined to let it go.
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Master September 2018
Jennifer · on March 19, 2018 at 3:47 PM
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I can understand you being disappointed, but I would let it go. In the grand scheme of things it really isn't such a big deal. I am more concerned by the fact that you all left her behind instead of waiting. Honestly, I think my feelings would have been hurt as well & depending on my mood I may have bailed as well. Chalk it up to a miscommunication on her part and apologize for leaving her behind, that was def wrong.
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