My moh decided not to make it to my bachelorette..

This seems like a pretty small thing to be mad about. Life happens maybe she honestly forgot to tell you that she couldn't get off until 3. I don't see why it was that big of a deal to just leave a few hours later.

To be fair, her sub could have cancelled that morning. It happens at my school with some regularity that subs cancel at the last minute. Not much else she could have done in that situation.

She probably could/should have let you know sooner, but if you were still able to go I don't see what the point of brooding about the situation is. If this person is really like your sister, I'm not entirely sure why you didn't just wait two hours so she could join you. I would honestly just let it go, what's done is done.

It's possible she was hoping that an alternate sub could be found after the first sub cancelled, and she didn't realize until day-of that there would definitely not be any alternate sub available. Teachers get very limited time off and are generally supposed to take their vacations during school holidays. I think that she should have communicated better, but I don't blame her for not being able to take the time off.

I am a teacher too and her sub could have cancelled, admin was cracking down, lots of things. No sub and you are going to a funeral? Fine. No sub and you are attending a bachelorette party? Not such a great idea. Then you left without her? Ouch. That would speak volumes to me.

Let it go.

Eh, it is not worth wasted days being upset, imo.

I understand why you're mad, but I think you have to talk it out with your cousin and let it go. For my bachelorette we're also leaving on a Friday. Any one that can't get off of work (so far only one person) is just going to drive by themselves and meet us at the hotel. It isn't really fair for a whole group to wait on one person. I guess it's an unpopular opinion but I think since your cousin wasn't able (or decided not to) tell you ahead of time she should have told you guys to go ahead and she'd meet you after work. To me, that would have been more polite then "oh you're all ready to leave? well wait 2 more hours for me". If it was important to her to go with the group she would have texted you all before you texted her (she clearly could have because she told your mom before she texted you) that she's sorry, she has to work, please wait for her instead of just expecting that you guys would wait without even letting you know she was at work

Maybe she could have communicated a little better, but I know with teachers, they may not always be aware of whether or not they're getting a sub. It sounds to me like you didn't have a flight to catch or anything, and while I can understand being a little annoyed at the delay, I don't think this is something you should hold onto.

She may have stayed home the next day because she felt like she was already dragging everyone down because of the Friday delay and didn't feel welcome on Saturday. I feel like the two of you need to come together and apologize.

As a teacher, I can tell you how difficult finding a sub can be. She may have had one booked and they cancelled on her. It's not like an office job where you can just leave your work, she can't leave the kids unless there is a sub there.

I do wish she'd come in on Saturday like she said but it seems like her feelings were hurt. I think it's time to meet up and have a conversation so you can move past this.

I would be upset too but its done and over with nothing you can do but move on really