My Future mother in law

Only person that should be addressing it that would be your FH. All of her questions deserve no answers because bottom line it's none of her business about any of that.

View Quoted Comment So true! Hilarious gif.

View Quoted Comment It's true tho. Tisk tisk. 🤷 SMH!!!!


Her man needs check Mama Bear ASAP💁

I’m a bit old fashioned, and don’t think discussions of personal finance are something anyone should ever question you about. I wouldn’t have answered any of her questions, and when it came to the ring I would have immediately directed her towards her son.

I would just ignore her and tell your FH that his mother overstepped her boundaries and that it would be nice if he could take care of it, otherwise it will be an unpleasant experience for you to hangout with her if the behavior continues.

I'm old school with it. I do not like when people ask me how much I paid for this or that. It's none of anyone business.

View Quoted Comment Thats how i feel!!!

View Quoted Comment He knows he said thats just who she is. I don't have to answer her

She’s being extremely rude asking just personal questions. Your FH needs to set some boundaries with her and if she still asks he needs to tell her to mind her own business. 🤦🏼‍♀️

I feel like sometimes parents just ask weird questions and are nosy aha because that sounds like my parents and his parents too

Ugh!! I hate when people ask these types of questions! It’s so rude!


I would just say that it’s none of her business, or simply that you spent what it costs. 😄

Just family being nosey. Don't tell her and keep it moving

It's really not her business to be asking these kind of questions! If she does it again, I would have FH have a serious talk with her about boundaries. She's out of line here for sure!

Oh sorry to hear that! She might be just feeling sad that her son is getting married and will no longer be "hers." I would try to stay as polite and calm as possible, and just kindly ignore her questions or direct them to FH. Keeping calm and not getting involved is the best (although def tough!) way to deal with manipulators. Good luck!

This is something that FH definitely needs to address with her.

wth IS HER PROBLEM? DOES SHE NOT LIKE YOU OR SOMETHING? WHY IS IT ANY OF HER BUSINESS ON HOW MUCH HE SPENDS ON YOU OR WHAT YALL MAKE.....

Your FH should handle this, not you.

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I don't think its not that she doesn't like me, because we don't and have never had a problem with anything. I think she is just seeing what type of money is coming through us, so she can adjust her "I need" moments. He blows her off, but me, I am like DAMN, my mama is all about the money and what she can get but she hasn't even asked all this!

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So she more so isn't looking at it as what are yall spending on & what do yall need help with that's what could of been better..

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No, she just NOSEY and wants to know what she can get foe herself.