LaToia
Savvy June 2020

My Future mother in law

LaToia, on November 28, 2019 at 11:57 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 33
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So... Let me start by saying i didn't have an issue with her... She clearly speaks her mind. We are in her city for the holiday. She asked about how much money we spending on our house(s) she asked about us going out of town and what we spend to do that so often she asked if we had just bought the car we was in and how much was spent on it she asked about the money we make at our security company. But lastly she asked where he get my ring from and how much it costs cause it looks exspensive, saying your exes rings weren't that nice. Like what???... He just laughs. Im like why she wanna know. How should i address this or should i leave it alone?

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  • Amber
    Super September 2020
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    Only person that should be addressing it that would be your FH. All of her questions deserve no answers because bottom line it's none of her business about any of that.


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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
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    So true! Hilarious gif.
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  • Amber
    Super September 2020
    Amber
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    It's true tho. Tisk tisk. 馃し SMH!!!!


    Her man needs check Mama Bear ASAP馃拋
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  • Jeanie
    Rockstar February 2020
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    I鈥檓 a bit old fashioned, and don鈥檛 think discussions of personal finance are something anyone should ever question you about. I wouldn鈥檛 have answered any of her questions, and when it came to the ring I would have immediately directed her towards her son.
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  • Simone
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    I would just ignore her and tell your FH that his mother overstepped her boundaries and that it would be nice if he could take care of it, otherwise it will be an unpleasant experience for you to hangout with her if the behavior continues.
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  • M.W.
    VIP June 2019
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    I'm old school with it. I do not like when people ask me how much I paid for this or that. It's none of anyone business.

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  • LaToia
    Savvy June 2020
    LaToia
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    Thats how i feel!!!
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  • LaToia
    Savvy June 2020
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    He knows he said thats just who she is. I don't have to answer her
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  • Cyndy
    Rockstar May 2019
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    She鈥檚 being extremely rude asking just personal questions. Your FH needs to set some boundaries with her and if she still asks he needs to tell her to mind her own business. 馃う馃徏鈥嶁檧锔
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  • Melle
    Champion June 2019
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    I feel like sometimes parents just ask weird questions and are nosy aha because that sounds like my parents and his parents too
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  • M
    Dedicated July 2020
    Mitten State Bride
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    Ugh!! I hate when people ask these types of questions! It鈥檚 so rude!


    I would just say that it鈥檚 none of her business, or simply that you spent what it costs. 馃槃
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  • Aimee
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    Just family being nosey. Don't tell her and keep it moving

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Rockstar December 2019
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    It's really not her business to be asking these kind of questions! If she does it again, I would have FH have a serious talk with her about boundaries. She's out of line here for sure!

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  • Tanya
    Beginner January 2020
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    Oh sorry to hear that! She might be just feeling sad that her son is getting married and will no longer be "hers." I would try to stay as polite and calm as possible, and just kindly ignore her questions or direct them to FH. Keeping calm and not getting involved is the best (although def tough!) way to deal with manipulators. Good luck!

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  • Stephanie
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    This is something that FH definitely needs to address with her.

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  • Kiara
    Super August 2020
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    wth IS HER PROBLEM? DOES SHE NOT LIKE YOU OR SOMETHING? WHY IS IT ANY OF HER BUSINESS ON HOW MUCH HE SPENDS ON YOU OR WHAT YALL MAKE.....


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  • MrsHamm
    Dedicated September 2019
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    Your FH should handle this, not you.

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  • LaToia
    Savvy June 2020
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    I don't think its not that she doesn't like me, because we don't and have never had a problem with anything. I think she is just seeing what type of money is coming through us, so she can adjust her "I need" moments. He blows her off, but me, I am like DAMN, my mama is all about the money and what she can get but she hasn't even asked all this!

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  • Kiara
    Super August 2020
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    So she more so isn't looking at it as what are yall spending on & what do yall need help with that's what could of been better..

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  • LaToia
    Savvy June 2020
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    No, she just NOSEY and wants to know what she can get foe herself.

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