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Just Said Yes November 2019

My fiancé is mad because he accidentally saw my wedding dress

Lea, on November 11, 2019 at 9:40 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 9
So my wedding is in 3 weeks and I’m actually surprised of how long I’ve kept my dress hidden from my fiancé, but yesterday my mom sent me a picture of me in my dress from my last fitting and my fiancé looked at my phone and saw the picture. Contrary to popular belief, he was the one upset about it and I wasn’t. It was only the back of me in my dress, so he didn’t even see the front of it... but he was destroyed that he saw it and now he’s upset that he knows what the back looks like. I tried to reassure him that it’s really not a big deal, especially because he only saw one part of it and it’ll be way different in person, but he’s still pretty upset about seeing it before. What should I do? 🙄

9 Comments

Latest activity by Melle, on November 12, 2019 at 1:29 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Nothing, he will be fine.

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  • Alyssa
    Super December 2021
    Alyssa ·
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    It was an accident. Explain to him that it will be a different experience with your hair and makeup done, with the veil on, and when he can see the front of the gown!

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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
    Amber ·
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    I can understand him being upset, but there's really nothing you can do about it. Just reassure him that it won't be the same as seeing all of it in person on your wedding day.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    There really isn’t anything you can do. He will be fine. Just let it go.
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  • A
    Master June 2020
    Anna ·
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    Not much you can do, luckily men are easily distracted, and forget things easily!
    My fiancee, also saw my dress by accident, and he's already forgotten.
    I guess he has to be like Elsa and "Let it go"
    It will look totally different to him , when you are wearing it.
    Hugs to him Smiley smile bless.
    It's sweet that he's concerned❤
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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
    Kristen ·
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    I say buy a new dress lol. JK. I agree that he will forget besides how you will look all done up will give the dress a totally different feel.

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  • Jeanie
    Super February 2020
    Jeanie ·
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    Tell him that wasn’t the real dress, just something you tried on that was the runner up. Chances are he didn’t get a good enough look to know the difference, and it will make him feel better.
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  • Brianna N
    Super October 2019
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    This exact same thing happened to us! He brought it up a couple times but by the wedding day it didn't matter. Try not to stress over him being stressed, lol!

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I don't think it's that big of a deal aha because he probably doesn't remember the details of it and didn't see all of the gown anyway
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