We have talked about him telling his family, but he says he is waiting for the right time. Which in his case would be never if I don't push him. I love him, but him and his whole family take their time on everything. They are the definition of planning life, not just letting it happen. I told him I was thinking about getting his brother and his wife and kids together with his parents for dinner around valentines day at a nice restaurant that we would pay for. Then in the middle of dinner announce to them that we are getting engaged and getting married in June. Do you think that would be to forward to get his family together and to tell them for him? And should I make sure he is ok with it, or just surprise him with it?Also my ex has agreed to sign over his rights for my fiance to adopt my youngest that he has been taking care of from the get go. Should I surprise him with that too...I know he will be so happy. I had already told him I didnt think it was going to happen.
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