I decided to bring up the idea of premarital counseling seeing as SOO many people have amazing things to say about it - but my FH does not see it that way, he said that made him worried. He feels that if I think we need counseling before were even married then why get married. I could not get it through to him that counseling isn't exclusively just for unhappy couples. He's has a very old fashioned view on counseling much like many people I know so I can understand where his worry comes from but what he said next just completely took my off guard - he said if we go to premarital counseling then we should get a prenup. In his mind those two things are in the same category. Basically he pictures counseling as him getting ganged up on by the counselor and I, which happens in movies for sure but not in real life. Idk where to go from here - anyone else go through something similar?
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