My fiancé and I don’t know what to do. Yesterday, my brother died unexpectedly from an overdose. He had seemed clean and getting better (I helped him get into rehab about 6 months ago.) I am the only family member other than his wife who lives in the same state, and I am helping make arrangements with a mortuary.
Our wedding is in 30 days. I feel like it is wrong and weird to have a party with drinking and dancing only 2-3 weeks after his funeral takes place. His kids are supposed to be flower children for us. But we have guests flying in from around the country, and I feel guilty asking people to cancel flights that they spent substantial amounts of money on.
I guess I am just looking to see if anyone has any input from similar experiences. All the posts I see about a family death close to the wedding date are for family members who were ill or older and the death wasn’t as much of a surprise.
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