Help! I feel like I’m doing something wrong.
Timeline: I got engaged 8/18, I asked my bridesmaids and MOH to be bridesmaids in 10/18. I had my 1st choice MOH decline, and one of my bridesmaids choices decline.
Fine, I get it, it happens.
I now have had ANOTHER bridesmaid withdraw, my MOH has been hard to get a hold of for weeks, and the rest of my bridesmaids seem to care less about me or the role they accepted. I don’t feel I text them too much regarding wedding details, about twice a month. I asked their advice on dresses they want to wear and accessories as well as hairstyles and makeup! I have only asked for their opinion when it comes to them. We are at a point where no one texts me back, in a group chat or individual one, and I don’t hear from them - ever. What did I do wrong? Did I completely overthink my relationship with so many women? I thought I was closer than this with them! Should I just say screw it and not have a bridal party?
I thought they were suppose to ease my anxiety, not create it!