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Just Said Yes June 2016

my best friend refuses to part of my wedding nor come to it. what do I do?

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Tammy, on September 7, 2015 at 1:48 AM

I have been engage now for slightly over a year and our wedding is June 2016 I chose my best friend of 25 years to be by maid of honor. She agreed and was thrilled that I was getting married. I love approximately 6 hours from her and most of my family. I moved away 2 1/2 years ago and met the man I...

I have been engage now for slightly over a year and our wedding is June 2016

I chose my best friend of 25 years to be by maid of honor. She agreed and was thrilled that I was getting married. I love approximately 6 hours from her and most of my family. I moved away 2 1/2 years ago and met the man I will soon call my husband. He is an amazing man that my family like as do my friends. My besty was acting weird and want to have a one on one conversation with me. She asked if I was sure I wanted to get married, She proceed to tell me that she could not be a part of the wedding nor will she be attending as she feels that I am making a mistake based on 2 arguments we have had that I vented to her about over a year ago. I am apparently the fool who thought I could confined in my best about an argument my boyfriend and I were having. She now has boycotted the wedding and I have lost my best friend as I am so hurt. The fights I vented to her about were nothing serious just needed a friend.

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VIP July 2015
Di · on September 7, 2015 at 2:34 PM
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Sounds like something happened between the two of them to cause bad blood. Not necessarily saying it is flirting or cheating, but something that could cause this kind of attitude change. You two have history together. Talk to her and see what is really going on.
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Just Said Yes June 2016
Tammy · on September 7, 2015 at 4:05 PM
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Thanks every one. She has meet him a few time when we come to the city for a visit. They have never been alone together I am there as well as her boyfriend. We don't see each others often since I moved away. The last time she seen my FH was at Christmas time. I was in town in March a lone and we got together nothing was said then. I will attempt to contact her again and see if I can get more out of her as to why she changed her mind. I honestly don't think I can do it in person as I am hurt by her actions and her suddenly change in feelings towards him. He does work I was his boss and we decided that because I was in a management position and I was there first that he would look for another job.
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Master November 2016
KitandKaboodle · on September 7, 2015 at 4:32 PM
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It could also just be jealousy. How long has she been in her current relationship?
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Super May 2015
DMN · on September 8, 2015 at 9:05 AM
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Does he have a criminal record?? If my best friend told me her fiance was picked up by the police, I would be googling the hell out of his name looking for a record and charges. Even if you told me the next day he was picked up for not testifying. I found if she found out something more or he has a criminal record. On the other side of that, i would have supplied you with all of my findings and explained myself, but if he has a violent past- she may be attempting to protect you.
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