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Suzanne
Dedicated July 2021

Moving forward, but how?

Suzanne, on March 20, 2020 at 11:40 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 6

Hi everyone! First, my condolences to everyone who's wedding is postponed or cancelled. Now that I have more invested in this, I can't imagine how disappointing that would be.


For those who are continuing on, how does one plan a wedding in a time of corona virus crisis? My date is July 25 and my wedding planner recommended that I keep that date. I have my wedding dress, but I was planning on going to the (now temporarily closed) bridal shop to match it with a veil and accessories. I don't have shoes yet, and I'm just dreading the constant back and forth shipments and returns that shopping online would cause. I already bought one pair of crap wedding shoes online that I can't return and will go straight to goodwill once that opens again. My seamstress for the dress is temporarily closed so I cannot do any of my fittings. My fiance doesn't have a suit and I don't know how he'll get one with the shop shut down. I'm ready to order invitations and I've confirmed with the printer, but I want to make a few adjustments to my wedding day timeline that I want to confirm with my venue before I print it on the invite. The venue is shut down temporarily and I haven't been able to contact anyone. And, my wedding planner had planned to go visit the venue to get an idea of the space for decor, but she didn't go before it closed.


Just the thought of all of this is making me anxious. I can buy stuff online, like veils and shoes and whatever, but I generally like to see things in person before I buy. If I wait until this blows over in mid May or June, there's a good chance that things will take some time to recover it might be even closer to my wedding date. I just really don't know how to move forward with finalizing wedding things during a time of global crisis and national lockdown...

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Latest activity by Jo, on March 23, 2020 at 5:52 PM
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    VIP October 2021
    Monica ·
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    You will have to be patient and go to stores as soon as they reopen. Its a hit or miss. I bought things well in advance and didn’t wait for anything last minute but unfortunately some of those things cant be returned now. Just try to get as much as you can done when stores reopen.
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    VIP September 2020
    Willow ·
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    Rather than relying on the opinion of someone who has a financial interest in your wedding going forward as planned, you should make your own independent assessment of whether you should keep your date.


    My biggest concern for you is that your venue isn't reachable. Have you tried email? How long has it been?

    David's Bridal is having a 20% sale on everything now and they have an easy return policy. Free shipping both ways.
    Nordstroms also has free shipping both ways. I got my shoes from there.
    Once the lockdowns are lifted, I presume bridal retail will be a madhouse. As stressful as it is, I'd take advantage of online shopping to the extent you can.
    Good luck!
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    Dedicated July 2020
    Julia ·
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    Hey girl. Our wedding is 7/26/20 and we are definitely postponing until 2021 😞 We feel that is the best thing for us, due to everything you mentioned and more. We will still get married at town hall within the next few months though. It is what it is.
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  • Suzanne
    Dedicated July 2021
    Suzanne ·
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    Thanks for the tips! I'll look into these places for shoes, veils, and accessories. I lost my job with the closure, so I might as well play the online guessing game!

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  • Suzanne
    Dedicated July 2021
    Suzanne ·
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    That's interesting. My fiance is a math guy and he created his own statistical model of the pandemic. According to his algorithm, we have a 50% chance of being able to go forward with the wedding as we originally planned. For a while I've thought about just going ahead and getting married at the court house and having the wedding as a celebration. The idea is even more tempting because it's an excuse to get out of the house! Smiley xd

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  • Jo
    WeddingWire Administrator May 2015
    Jo ·
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    I'm so sorry you're faced with such a difficult decision and so much uncertainty. We've started gathering initial tips and resources from WeddingWire here: COVID-19 Wedding Support Central, and you can connect with other couples concerned about their July wedding dates in this discussion: July 2020 Weddings.

    We'll be here to support you however things go! Smiley heart

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