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MrsGtoBe
Dedicated May 2018

Mother's Day weekend wedding

MrsGtoBe, on August 28, 2017 at 12:39 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 20

Anyone getting married Mother's Day weekend? Any potential issues with that weekend? I realize flowers may be more expensive and our anniversary would always fall around Mother's Day. Is anyone worried about guest attendance? Our mothers are okay with this weekend being the wedding weekend. We have run into a potential issue with our date so are looking to potentially moving it a week earlier.

ETA: The wedding would be on Saturday, not on Mother's Day.

20 Comments

Latest activity by Angie, on August 29, 2017 at 3:08 PM
  • S. Suarez
    Super March 2018
    S. Suarez ·
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    Not getting married Mother's Day weekend, but Easter weekend next year. We didn't notice until a few months after we booked the venue, photographer, florist. Honestly, my family is really close, so I don't see that big of an issue. Also, haven't had issues with vendors or anything else.

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  • JJWed2018
    Super June 2018
    JJWed2018 ·
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    That's the weekend I had first wanted but after my florist pointed out that it was Mother's Day weekend I changed my mind. She talked about how there might not be the best selection of flowers and then we talked about how our anniversary would fall Mother's Day weekend and I realized I don't want to share my anniversary with Mother's Day each year because I want each one to be celebrated separately.

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  • Callie Sue
    Expert December 2017
    Callie Sue ·
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    As a guest, I likely wouldn't have a problem with it as long as it wasn't on actual Mother's Day and didn't interfere with family plans or something.

    However, from the perspective of someone who works at a florist shop, the entire week leading up to Mother's Day is insane. Knowing what goes on behind the scenes with the sheer volume of flowers being moved through and the stress that everyone from designers to delivery drivers experience, I personally would not schedule my wedding for that weekend. I'm not saying your flowers would fall by the wayside because obviously everything possible would be done to get them right, but there'd be the potential for them to be more rushed than typical practice and a higher likelihood of something going wrong at every stage of the process - because it's not just the local florist that deals with flowers, it's the wholesaler and everyone else in the supply chain. We had flowers this year that we'd ordered for Mother's Day weekend long in advance that never showed up at all.

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  • Charis
    July 2021
    Charis ·
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    I wouldn't do it just because I'd like to be able to celebrate Mother's Day separately from my wedding anniversary. But that's just me.

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  • JerseyGirl
    Master May 2017
    JerseyGirl ·
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    We were married Mother's Day weekend. There were no declines due to it being Mother's Day weekend. Our flower prices weren't affected.

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
    A. L. ·
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    There's no chance in the world i would go to a Mother's Day weekend wedding. Sorry. Being with my mom on that day is more important than someone's wedding, to me.

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  • Sos0033
    VIP September 2017
    Sos0033 ·
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    As long as it isn't on Sunday, I think it's fine. @A.L what if it's a local wedding on Saturday evening..?

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  • KandMsayIDO
    Expert July 2017
    KandMsayIDO ·
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    I would have to respectfully decline the invite. Mother's Day is important to my Mother and also to me. I hang out with her the Saturday before and get pampered the Sunday myself (I'm a mother too).

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  • Ariella
    Super March 2018
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    Also getting married 03.31 next year and haven't had any issues. I think when you give enough notice people are more willing to work around you and plan accordingly and to still honour the holiday. I teach in NYC and that is the start of my spring break hence why we chose it. I made sure to alert my teacher friends very early by private email as a preliminary Save the Date.

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  • N
    Dedicated May 2017
    Noelle ·
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    I did... flowers were def more expensive.. Not all mother days fall on your anniversary

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  • Ashley
    VIP May 2018
    Ashley ·
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    We are getting married the day before. Not a big deal, the family doesn't care. The only thing I'm struggling with is brunch the following morning.

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  • Ashley
    VIP May 2018
    Ashley ·
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    My venue includes flowers so I don't think it'll be a big deal, I think they only do weddings so it shouldn't be a problem.

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  • TwistedPrincess
    Super May 2018
    TwistedPrincess ·
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    We are getting married mothers day weekend and the only issue we've run into is that it's also prom weekend for 2 schools in our county. ETA we are getting our flowers from Sam's Club so I didn't even look into local florists.

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  • 033118
    Super March 2018
    033118 ·
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    @S.Suarez date twin! Samesies with us! Only higher quote we received was for flowers.

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  • The Trap Selena
    Master March 2016
    The Trap Selena ·
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    A lot of universities graduate on Mother's Day weekend.

    And call me selfish, but I'm not going to a wedding on Mother's Day. I'd be spending it with my child, husband, and my own mother.

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  • MrsGtoBe
    Dedicated May 2018
    MrsGtoBe ·
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    The wedding would be on Saturday before Mother's Day. And we've been looking around at universities in our area and have only found 1 that graduates that day so hopefully that isn't a problem.

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  • WED18
    July 1993
    WED18 ·
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    As a mom and a guest, it wouldn't bother me in the least assuming the wedding is on Saturday Smiley smile

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  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
    OG Kathryn ·
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    I had mine the night before mother's day. I had a 98% acceptance rate so i don't think many people care. Also, my flowers weren't more expensive.

    As long as its not ON mothers day, your fine. I also gave the centerpiece flower to mothers that were there.

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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
    GymRat ·
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    I would go. I would just see my mother the day before, and my mother would have no problem with that.

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  • Angie
    Dedicated March 2018
    Angie ·
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    College graduations tend to be this weekend.

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