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Mother walking Groom down aisle

milinovemberbride, on March 23, 2017 at 6:16 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 27

Is the MOG walking the groom down the aisle a thing? FMIL said the other day "when I walk Michael down the aisle... blah blah blah." And it kind of struck me as weird. Personally, I don't care what she does as long as she leaves me alone but I hate how she just assumes that she's going to walk him...

Is the MOG walking the groom down the aisle a thing?

FMIL said the other day "when I walk Michael down the aisle... blah blah blah." And it kind of struck me as weird. Personally, I don't care what she does as long as she leaves me alone but I hate how she just assumes that she's going to walk him down. Also I didn't know that a mother is supposed to walk her son down? I always thought he just walks by himself. Just looking for some knowledge on the etiquette of this.

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  • the Grooms
    Master May 2018
    the Grooms ·
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    We are escorting our moms down the aisle

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    Master May 2018
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    I don't find it emasculating at all. It's an honor to walk my strong beautiful mother down the aisle!

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    Master January 2021
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    @lyla so if it's "not sexy" and emasculating for the groom to be escorted down the aisle, what does that make it when the bride is escorted by her father? Not sexy and.....? Quite the double standard there. I love when both sets of parents escort their respective children down the aisle, I think it's really sweet, and it's the norm for Jewish weddings.

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    March 2012
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    It is actually quite the norm... the groom escorting his mother to her seat with his father a step behind. The groom can then head on to where he will enter with the officiant. Having been a wedding planner/coordinator and both the MOB and MOG, it is the sweetest thing to acknowledge his parents too. It also in essence is their way of saying we are acknowledging your bride and this new chapter. My son hugged me and gave me a kiss, he then shook his dad's hand and hugged him. A sweet memory and in character of our son and our relationship with him.

    I always made sure to include the groom's parents on their son's special day as day of coordinator. It is really a small part of the seating of guest and means so much! I'm sure the mother meant that he would escort her... Smiley smile

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  • milinovemberbride
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    milinovemberbride ·
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    Hi Nancy.. this post was made over a year ago and we have since had our wedding! He did walk his mother to her seat and everyone was happy Smiley smile
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    December 2019
    Blanca ·
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    As a mot her of two sons. It's my plan to walk my son's down the aisle. Sons have rights as Daughters.
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    December 2019
    Blanca ·
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    As a mom of two sons. Weather the bride likes it or Not, i am waking my son's down. Sons have as much rights as Daughters.
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