I'm Kimberly and hold the position of Mother of the Groom and wedding planner. My dear sweet DIL to be's father died 6 years ago. She graduated high school this year at age 17 a year early and is now in college but her mother kicked her out of her house because she disagrees with her relationship with my son. DIL2B has been paying her way through life for the most part of her last 2 years and what she couldn't pay for my son has taken care of for her; this even includes medical bills. She says her mom just kind of gave up on being a mom and her relationship with my son was a good reason to just move on completely.
So she now lives with us which isn't bad at all because my son works in the oil business and is gone for 2 weeks at a time so we make it work.
So needless to say my husband and I are doing the entire wedding. Her mom won't even go dress shopping with her, asks no questions. It brakes my heart. The wedding isn't until May of 2015 so there is time for her to get over her self but DIL2B isn't hopeful and getting to where she doesn't care if she even comes. Even her sister, not wanting to rock the boat with her mom has said she doesn't know if she will even be at the wedding. So at this point none of her family are planning on being there.
We are trying to give her the dream wedding she has always wanted and make it all we can for them. We have a Venue booked they love, a photographer booked and the catering is being worked out.
My question I guess is, has anyone been in these shoes before or something like them and do you have any advice. Things to watch out for, things I can do to give her that extra family touch? Again this girl is so sweet and it brakes my heart she has to deal with this and I just want to do the right thing for them.
Thanks ahead for your responses!