My FH's mother is extremely self-centered. We went to my FH cousin's wedding a couple weeks ago (she is the first of the grandkids/ his mom's side of the family to get married) and she was having issues with the wedding not being about her in any way because well, we were just extended family. We took one large extended family photo with the photographer and his mom was having a fit about not being able to take more.. I'm worried that when it comes to our wedding next fall the issue of it being "HER son's wedding"- the second wedding in that family, will somehow trump the traditional bride's family hype (my parents are paying for everything) and it be about her.. even more so than it being about me and FH. I've been through my siblings' wedding and I understand what photos I want and don't want to take and I think she'll want to take every kind of family photo imaginable.. How do I keep her in line.. there's no talking to this woman without her taking offense or her making it about her
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