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Mother in law with rude comments

Keyleesha, on February 26, 2017 at 11:05 PM Posted in Planning 0 43

So my mother in law has always been saying how we're spending all this time and money on this wedding when we should be having a baby. Wich my fiancé and I always said we don't want any kids until after we are married. We want to get married and enjoy our marriage. So she has always made rude comments about us not having kids. Last night we were at a family party and she had made a rude comment like " my son has yet given me a grandchild, I want one now even if I have to get him with a prostitute I will get my grandchild" my fiancé and I both were really upset even my father inlaw had to tell her to stop. I just don't know what to do. This is my mother in law and she is just to much. Another event she had offered me wine at a family event and she put salt in my wine cup I was so confused didn't think anything of it but then I asked every who had the wine if they found anything strange in there wine and they didn't. I showed my fiancé and he said yea there is definitely salt in your cup

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Latest activity by Kate, on February 28, 2017 at 8:47 AM
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    Keyleesha ·
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    HELP! What do I do

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  • JPCD
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    JPCD ·
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    She sounds insane. I'd talk to your FH to see if he can tell her to chill out. Unfortunately to keep the peace you may have to shrug off her comments. Although they're disrespectful as hell. I'd be pissed and knowing me, I'd make some smart ass comment lol but don't take that route.

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    Aerynne ·
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    Your FH needs to set some boundaries with her. Your reproduction is none of her damn business, not the if, not the when, not the how, none of it.

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  • M
    Beginner May 2017
    MayFlowers ·
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    I would have your husband set her straight! The fright of possibly not being allowed at her sons wedding will probably scare her straight... trust me I have one too. It's HARD and probably won't get too much easier. But one thing at a time love! Good luck.

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    Keyleesha ·
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    I have been really respectful to her and I try to shrug it off but honestly there just getting worse. To the point my fiancé told her if she doesn't stop that she won't be seeing him that much, wich I don't want because that's his mother and I don't want drama wile I'm wedding planning I'm just hopping this all blows over

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  • T
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    Toya ·
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    It's time for your FH to step up to her now.If he doesn't address the issue now it's going to get worst.

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  • Jane38
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    Jane38 ·
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    Why the heck did she put salt in your cup??? She sounds nuts. I'd watch my food and drinks around her. And it sounds like FH needs to speak up...

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  • samantha
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    samantha ·
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    Uh she sounds crazy. Why would she put salt in your wine? That's just weird and childish.

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    If this is a real story, I would ignore her.

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    Keyleesha ·
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    Yea I was confused too she put salt in my wine and I knew it tasted weird but didn't want to be rude and just drank it and when I got to the bottom I saw it and tasted it and showed my fiancé and he was confused as well and I asked other people who had wine if they had any and they didn't and when I asked her if she put salt in my wine she laughed and said no

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  • Jane38
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    Jane38 ·
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    For me, someone putting something in my drink is a huge red flag (I don't care what it is).

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  • Kristina
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    Kristina ·
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    My FMIL is after FH and me to have children. We agreed that we would not try and have kids until after we are married. She is on baby craze since the older 2 just had their first children with the oldest grandchild almost 2 and the other one turns one next weekend. She wants her grandchildren close in age.. For now we ignore her and I think you should too. Have your FH stand up to her and tell her to backoff.

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    Keyleesha ·
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    This is real story....and he has said things to her where they argue.

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    Keyleesha ·
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    Seriously Windowschick who wants to ruin wine lol

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  • FutureMrsPrescott
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    FutureMrsPrescott ·
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    This is so strange. I would steer clear of anyone putting things in my drink. What does she want more, grandkids or a son? Sounds like if she keeps it up she'll have neither.

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    Keyleesha ·
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    Seriously

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  • Veep
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    Veep ·
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    Time for your FH to put his big boy pants on and have a talk with her. Asap.

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    vghjfcxgxfgdh ·
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    How strange, you have every right to feel wierd about this. I hope your FH can talk to her and calm her down. She doesn't sound like someone that I would want around my *future* child.

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    Keyleesha ·
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    I don't want her around my child if she keeps this up

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  • Natalie
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    Natalie ·
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    FH needs to have a talk with her. In no way does she have the right to push yall into having a baby and be extremely rude to you. She sounds crazy! I would try and ignore her as much as possible, but FH definitely needs to set her straight!

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