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More Groomsmen than Bridesmaids/flower girl ring bearer help

Ally, on October 28, 2020 at 2:38 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 6
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Help!
How did you do your procession order if there was more groomsmen than bridesmaids?
Right now I have my MOH and 4 bridesmaids. My FH has his best man, 4-5 groomsmen (cause he can't decide if he wants to ask his other friend) then his 2 younger brothers as Jr. groomsmen (I'm already thinking of just having them walk together as they are twins). His best man and one of his groomsmen will be making speeches, should I have them both with my MOH?

Also is it weird to only have a flower girl and not a ring bearer? We asked my FH's brothers son (who he adopted as it was his wife's son), but his mom last said she will not let him go to the wedding (she hates us lol).

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Latest activity by Meghan, on November 3, 2020 at 8:32 AM
  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    You could have two groomsmen paired with one of the bridesmaids! I've seen that done before. As for the flower girl and no ring bearer, I don't think that's weird! You're not required to have both.
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
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    I agree with this

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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
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    Best option in my opinion is to have two groomsmen with one bridesmaid! I've seen this done all the time when there's an uneven number. We also had only flower girls and no ring bearer!

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  • Shannon
    Dedicated March 2022
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    Wow that stinks that she won’t allow her son to participate! I’m sorry to hear that! I was in a wedding with more guys then girls and 2 of us walked with 1 guy it worked out fine
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  • Annika
    Expert November 2020
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    We have 4 groomsmen and 2 bridesmaids, but two of our groomsmen have dates so they will escort their dates to their seats and then walk up to the stand. The other two that don't have dates will walk the bridesmaids up. That's just how we are doing it. Also it doesn't matter if you don't have a ring bearer! Your wedding party can be whatever you want! If you are worried about the rings getting the the altar you can have your MOH or best man in charge of them!

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    I would have them all walk individually. We had even bridal party numbers but we still let everyone walk on their own. Having 2 groomsmen to 1 bridesmaid walking down the aisle looks cluttered.

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