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Kalie, on February 20, 2020 at 10:15 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 22

So my fiancé and I have finalized our guest list, however his parents constantly ask to see the list (Keep in mind my parents are paying for the guests and not his). My parents haven’t asked once to see the list. His dad has a friend who he wants to be invited, however my fiancé does not want him...
So my fiancé and I have finalized our guest list, however his parents constantly ask to see the list (Keep in mind my parents are paying for the guests and not his). My parents haven’t asked once to see the list. His dad has a friend who he wants to be invited, however my fiancé does not want him there at all. We have had this conversation many times, but now that I’m asking for addresses to be able to send out invitations, his father has gotten really angry about it. We are trying to stand our ground, but I would like opinions on how to handle this situation. Do we just give his father what he wants?
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    Judith ·
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    You have gone as far as fairness demands, and more. And are at a very necessary place to set boundaries. No longer discuss it, It is done. Through your marriage, this will rise to a skill often practiced. You will get more tactful, and good at it. Good luck...
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  • Naikesha
    Super September 2020
    Naikesha ·
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    But the Groom doesn't like the guy so why should they be uncomfortable for the sake of the father wanting his friend there.

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