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Waldy
Devoted October 2020

moh plus 1?

Waldy, on July 1, 2019 at 11:37 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 22

My MOH is my very best friend. I've known her since grade school. She's currently 'dating' someone almost 30 years older than us (we're in our late 20s). I use the word 'dating' because even she's told me they're not really together, but more like business partners (he's in NJ, she's in SC, and he...

My MOH is my very best friend. I've known her since grade school. She's currently 'dating' someone almost 30 years older than us (we're in our late 20s). I use the word 'dating' because even she's told me they're not really together, but more like business partners (he's in NJ, she's in SC, and he paid for her condo - his daughter goes to college a few hours from where my bff lives). I've already told her that guy is NOT invited to the wedding. He's belligerent, rude, aggressive and clashes heavily with my FH's family (he used to live in the same neighbor as my FH). She totally understood and agreed. NOW the question is, do I still give her a plus 1 to bring some random person or just invite her solo? I don't really want her bringing a random person. I love her to death, but I just don't like her taste in men. We're nowhere near close to sending out invites, but we're having an intimate wedding and trying to lock down our guest list.

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    Super January 2020
    Cassie ·
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    I’m glad you were upfront with her that he was not invited. I would invite her alone with no plus one. I intend on only allowing plus ones if they are in a relationship and not just casually dating someone.
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  • Waldy
    Devoted October 2020
    Waldy ·
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    They've been together for almost 5 years now, but they've definitely drifted apart. they have a very weird relationship status, to say the least.

    But I agree on the plus ones if only in a solid relationship. my brother dates around all the time. he just got into a relationship, so we'll see if they actually stay together, especially since he's going away for grad school.

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