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Savvy November 2019

moh or Bm? What if your moh is not reliable?

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Elisabeth, on November 4, 2019 at 12:03 PM

So when I was deciding who would be the MOH, I decided on this one girl who I will call Leslie but I did not know that she was unreliable and could not do ANYTHING I asked her to. My gut was telling me to choose my BFF, Kay, but she lives in Missouri and Leslie lives in the same town I do and I figured she could help me with more stuff.
My BFF came down from Missouri to spend a week now and then and she has been AWESOME help and is totally reliable and pitches in to help with EVERYTHING!

I ended up asking Leslie to step down to be a bridesmaid (very nicely and she was fine with it, she didn't get mad at me) and I asked Kay to be the MOH and things have been great. Its still a bit awkward hanging around Leslie but she just is not available and always late to things and is never in touch.

also, I can see myself staying more in touch with Kay then with Leslie over the years.

Did anyone else have problems like this? How did you solve them? Has anyone had a BM back out?

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Savvy November 2019
Elisabeth · on November 6, 2019 at 5:50 PM
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Thank you, Jess! That is exactly what I am dealing with! And that is what I told her! I said something like "it seems like you have a lot on your plate and I want to make things easier on you" . And she has hardly communicated with me at all! Maybe one text in 2 months. As you said, I need communication and honesty!
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