Rebecca
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Modern or Traditional: The Night Before?

Rebecca, on October 16, 2018 at 11:05 AM Posted in Planning 0 84
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Will you be sleeping without your fiancé(e) the night before the big day? Or will you two dare to be modern and sleep together?

Traditional?

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84 Comments

  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·

    Traditional! Little sister and I are having our last sister sleepover with the same last name!

  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
    Traditional. We'll be splitting for the night after the welcome party for our guests.
  • DC Wife 10.27.18
    Master October 2018
    DC Wife 10.27.18 ·

    Modern: We are spending the night together at our home and splitting up in the morning.

  • LB
    Champion November 2016
    LB ·

    Modern: We had a DW so we stayed together and actually had breakfast with our family the morning of the wedding.

  • Kelci
    Super June 2019
    Kelci ·
    Modern. Spending the night together then breakfast with our kids then splitting off.
  • queenbee
    VIP October 2018
    queenbee ·
    Traditional. I’ll be in our suite the night before with my parents and sister (MOH) and FH will also be at the hotel but in a room with his groomsmen.
  • Happily Ever Mrs. H
    VIP October 2018
    Happily Ever Mrs. H ·

    Modern.

    Neither my husband or I are superstitious. We felt it would be more hassle than it's worth to spend the night separately.

  • Kelly
    Master October 2018
    Kelly ·
    Modern. We rented a house on the property of our venue for 2 nights so we both stayed there the night before. It really helped to calm me down and ease my nerves!
  • Amber
    Dedicated June 2019
    Amber ·
    Traditional! I'll be spending the night with my sisters ❤
  • Jazmin
    Rockstar April 2019
    Jazmin ·

    Modern. We are renting a loft, sleeping together and then he will get ready on the first floor while I get ready on the second floor.

  • Selena Ariel Kyle
    Devoted November 2018
    Selena Ariel Kyle ·
    Splitting. The vacay rental we have for the wedding party has an extra room so he will sleep there. And we will avoid seeing each other from the rehearsal dinner until I walk down the aisle 😍
  • Jen
    Super May 2018
    Jen ·

    Modern. We spent the night together since we had gotten a hotel room.

  • Swtnss238
    VIP May 2019
    Swtnss238 ·
    Traditional. My getting ready process starts the day before so he can not see me when that starts. We have seperate rooms in the same hotel.
  • Btbride
    Super August 2019
    Btbride ·

    Probably traditional, just because I think it'd make us both a little more excited for the day if we spend the night before apart. I imagine I'll probably spend the night with my out of town maid of honor at least!

  • C
    Super October 2018
    Cassandra ·
    Traditional. Us ladies are getting ready in my hotel early (7:45) so it would make sense to wake up and be there!! Considering I live 45 minutes away from my venue, I get extra sleep time and a moment with my daughter before the big day!
  • Erika
    Expert April 2019
    Erika ·

    Traditional. I have my two MOH's and Jr MOH in the room with me.

  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Aw! Will you and your sisters be sleeping at a hotel or at somebody's home?

  • FutureMrsR
    Dedicated October 2018
    FutureMrsR ·

    Traditional! I plan to stay with my bridesmaids in a hotel the night before then we will start getting ready in the morning.

  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
    Abby ·
    We don't live together so we'll obviously be doing it traditional. I still live with my parents and will move in with him after the wedding!
  • Across The Stars
    Devoted October 2019
    Across The Stars ·
    Traditional. We don't live together so that was an easy decision for us.

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