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Savvy September 2018

mob Champagne Dress?

Lydia, on February 4, 2018 at 8:54 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 23
Hi there,
My mom and I recently went dress shopping for her (MOB) and my two sisters (my twin who will be my maid of honor and my youngest sister who will be my bridesmaid). As we were sifting through dresses, I found this beautiful champagne dress for my mom to try on - she loved it and it has been her top pick for dresses so far. Now, I'm seeking some advice. After our shopping trip (she hasn't purchased it yet), I came home and was reading about wedding etiquette. Champagne is one of the suggested colors for MOB/MIL to avoid. Although I would not have a problem with it, I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable if someone says something (though I can't imagine anyone we invited would). May i get your thoughts on this? I've attached a picture for your reference. Thanks in advance!

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Latest activity by Mrs.hays, on February 4, 2018 at 7:17 PM
  • GoodMOB
    April 2018
    GoodMOB ·
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    I'm wondering why this would be a color to avoid? Seems to me to be a great, appropriate color for MOB/MOG. What was the reasoning given in the article?



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  • WED18
    July 1993
    WED18 ·
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    That's a beautiful dress! Nothing wrong at all with the color Smiley smile

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  • L
    Savvy September 2018
    Lydia ·
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    Thank you for your response! The article mentioned that the color could match or be in a similar color family as the wedding dress and some brides may want more of a contrast to their dress. For me, there would be no resemblance between both dresses. I guess my follow up question to my original post is: If you were attending a wedding and the MOB had on the dress, would you think "oh wow, that's beautiful" or "why the heck is she wearing that color"? I think it's beautiful, but wanted to see what other's reactions would be.
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  • L
    Savvy September 2018
    Lydia ·
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    Yay. Thank you for your response!! Smiley smile
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  • L
    Expert June 2018
    LeeAnne ·
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    My moms wearing champagne thats the color she wanted i see no issue with it! & it will compliment very nicely in photos
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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    Lovely dress. As long as MOB loves it she should get it. The color is far different from white and will look lovely.

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  • WED18
    July 1993
    WED18 ·
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    I see a lot of champagne dresses when I search online and on Pinterest for MOB dresses. Honestly I think it's a great color for the moms and wouldn't bat an eye. I plan to find a color that compliments champagne since that's the color my daughter's BM's are wearing, but if they weren't it would be a color I'd be interested in.

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  • Officiallymrs
    Super May 2010
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    As long as you’re not wearing champagne or your bMs I think it’s beautiful !
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  • Forestwed
    Master May 2018
    Forestwed ·
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    The dress is beautiful! Where is it from?
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  • L
    Savvy September 2018
    Lydia ·
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    David's Bridal! We found out after trying it on that it was on sale for $99. Given the feedback I've received, I think I'm going to give my mom the go ahead to get it. Thank you all for your help with this!
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  • L
    Savvy September 2018
    Lydia ·
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    And the bridesmaids are all wearing long dresses in a style of their choice, but in this color.

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  • MS. MACMEN
    VIP March 2018
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    I think it looks beautiful and if your mom feels like a million bucks in it, then get it!
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  • Officiallymrs
    Super May 2010
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    Love this color!! This was my first choice for colors unfortunately I didn’t like the fabrics at David’s Bridal and no other designer has a color close enough to it
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  • L
    Savvy September 2018
    Lydia ·
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    Thank you and oh man! So I absolutely love this color too, but have recently ran into a minor set back. I have 6 girls total for my side (4 bridesmaids, 1 JR bridesmaid, and 1 MOH). All of the girls are my and my FH's sisters and the JR bridesmaid is his niece who we absolutely adore. All, but the MOH found their dresses in the quartz color. We're having a hard time finding the perfect dress for my MOH and will be searching elsewhere for a dress in this exact color. I'm hoping we find it out there, but if not, we can always put her in a lilac or contrasting color that fits the color scheme. This is one gigantic jigsaw puzzle. I'm admittedly having fun trying to figure things out so that's a good thing at least!
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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
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    I think I have seen a dozen MOB's and MOG's wearing champagne. One article does not make a rule.

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  • NinjaBride
    Super June 2018
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    Maybe because champagne is a popular color for wedding dresses now?! I don’t know. But the dress is beautiful if the color is ok with you then it shouldn’t bother anyone else.
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  • Officiallymrs
    Super May 2010
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    I feel like I’m really bad at visioning things and colors together lol so I’m letting my mom & BMS take control of that .. but the good thing about your situation is at least it’s your MOH who can’t find a dress and not a bridesmaid .. a lot of times I’ve been to weddings where the maid of honor is in a different color .. and the Best Mans. Tie/bow tie is complimenting to her dress as opposed to being in the same tie as the other guys!
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  • RZ_ToBe
    Master July 2018
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    I didn't realize anything other than white, ivory, or any other poor close to white was forbidden. If your mom likes the dress and you don't mind her wearing that color, I'd say let her wear it. I doubt anyone is going to side eye her for it.
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  • Nikki
    Super May 2018
    Nikki ·
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    I think that article is just pointing out that some champagne is closer to a cream color. There shouldn’t be an issue as long as you & your mom like the dress & are comfortable with her wearing it.
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  • Heather
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    Heather ·
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    Perhaps the article was referring to brides who wear nonwhite dresses. I think I tried on a few dresses that had a golden color underneath white lace. That may be the only reason to avoid, but I can't say I would have cared had I chosen one of those dresses. I don't think the dress looks inappropriate in any way. It is beautiful and doesn't seem to me to be trying to mimic a wedding dress in any way. I think it is perfect if your mom likes it.
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