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Paula
Super September 2019

Minor invitation meltdown

Paula, on June 1, 2019 at 9:11 PM

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It finally happened, I broke down. These invitations have been driving me crazy and I couldn't take it anymore. My FH and I were driving to Costco last night and just going over the look of the invitation, the cost, where to buy them from, the cost, debating on printing them at home, the cost!, and...
It finally happened, I broke down. These invitations have been driving me crazy and I couldn't take it anymore. My FH and I were driving to Costco last night and just going over the look of the invitation, the cost, where to buy them from, the cost, debating on printing them at home, the cost!, and he said said something that just put me over the edge..."just pick whatever you want and let's do it"...that was it, I lost it, I just said, a little input would be nice and started crying. I never thought I would be this person crying over choosing invitations! I'm trying to be frugal and thinking "it's a piece of paper that most people will throw away" but then on the other hand I want it to look nice...Oh the dilemma! So after driving to 3 stationary business today and hearing the shock of the price of 40 invitations ($550 min!) we came home, I bit the bullet and just ordered the original ones I chose online 3 months ago! Hopefully they look as beautiful in person when they come in, but I'm done! Now I'm crying tears of joy in my well deserved glass of wine! LOL


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  • Rachel
    Expert September 2019
    Rachel ·
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    Our most recent thing was me saying something along the lines of "I'm looking at rings for you; do you like any of these? Also I still like this one." He previously agreed to the one I like. We are 3 months away from the wedding. I have a specialty finger size and he wants a non-traditional metal, so the time is NOW.

    It was an utter meltdown because he can't stand jewelry and idk, gets worked up during certain times of the month. Like it really didn't have to be an issue.... yet there we were.

    IDK, we have 3 months to go and it's just a week of not being able to talk to him about any of this crap on my stupid to-do list that I NEED his input for or we're just not going to have a wedding. Last week we had no problem discussing it. This week is different. You know?

    Girl, you are SO not alone in this.

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