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Minimony gift given, reception this month, what do i do?

Jessica, on September 12, 2021 at 12:52 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

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Hi everyone!
I’m a bridesmaid who was apart of a COVID wedding that got postponed a year due to everything that happened. The bride had a minimony last year, where I gave her a normal check/ wedding gift. this year, she is having the actual reception. Am I expected to give another check? I find this to be excessive but I don’t want to be rude!!

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Latest activity by Jennifer, on September 13, 2021 at 6:27 PM

Master September 2019
Sarah · on September 12, 2021 at 1:00 PM
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I wouldn’t. You already gave a wedding gift- no need for a second.
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Super December 2020
Anais · on September 12, 2021 at 2:23 PM
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No it’s not necessary.
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Savvy September 2022
Lynn · on September 12, 2021 at 3:38 PM
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No, it's not expected.
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Master April 2021
Michelle · on September 12, 2021 at 3:44 PM
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Agree- it’s not necessary.
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Master October 2020
Yasmine · on September 12, 2021 at 4:01 PM
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It's definitely not necessary, however I personally would. It wouldn't be anything too expensive, but I wouldn't want to show up empty handed. But there is just me!
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Super September 2022
Sarah · on September 12, 2021 at 9:00 PM
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I agree that it’s not necessary. I would probably still get a card, but that’s it.
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Dedicated December 2021
Jennifer · on September 13, 2021 at 6:27 PM
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No way! Some of my bridesmaids gave me a lovely gift at the mini-ceremony last year (which was totally not necessary), and I would not want or expect them to give more. I don't think your friend would expect it either.
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