Hi all!
Buckle your seatbelts because this a mess. FH and I are planning to have an intimate ceremony with 30 people maximum. Originally we were going to not invite friends, but have recently realized we want our best friends there for our special day, so we want to include them.
I want to invite my 4 best friends, but I have come to an issue when it comes to plus ones. 3/4 of those friends are in serious relationships/engaged. The issue is with one of my engaged friends. Recently, her fiancé has put a strain in our friendship due to him making sexual advances towards me one night when we were all drinking together. He admitted to being attracted to me and even went as far as trying to get me to do things with him. Immediately I told my best friend but she has since forgave him and they are still planning to get married (don’t even get me started on that issue). FH is aware of the situation and obviously friend’s fiancé is an absolute no when it comes to him coming to the wedding.
I don’t know if my friend will be this naive to think he would be invited, but since she has somehow stuck by this guy despite this situation, I come to the issue with how do I let my other friends that are engaged/in serious relationships bring a plus one, but not her? The circumstances are obvious but I still think she may try and include him. I am very close to this particular friend and I’m already upset that our relationship is strained because of all this. I’m afraid of losing her altogether. Is there anyway around this?
We considered no plus ones, but that also seems taboo. I know it’s our wedding, our decision, but this doesn’t make this any easier.
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