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Melody
Master April 2017

Merriment to follow?

Melody , on August 19, 2016 at 7:48 PM Posted in Planning 0 19

Got an invite to a friend of FHs wedding today. It was pretty, but the wording made me laugh. Merriment to follow? What does merriment entail? Another thing I've noticed is anytime I get a stock design invite I dont get a sense of the wedding.. How formal is it, for example. Also would you write "2" or just a check mark?? I dont think I would have thought about this if I wasnt planning one also. Like how does she know we are both attending with just a check mark? Sorry the photo is sideways, I'm on mobile.


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Latest activity by MNA, on August 19, 2016 at 11:07 PM
  • Melody
    Master April 2017
    Melody ·
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    Close up of wording


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  • SarahStillwell
    VIP September 2016
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    Merriment = Partying

    ETA: Looks like a more casual invite to me but I ALWAYS go with cocktail attire unless I know for certain. Also, write 2 so there is no confusion.

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  • IslandBride
    Devoted December 2016
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    This was one of my biggest headaches when thinking about the RSVP card. Do I put in the number? Do I leave it blank for the guest to fill in? I feel like I overthink everything! But yes I agree how would she know that you are BOTH attending

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  • IslandBride
    Devoted December 2016
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    This was one of my biggest headaches when thinking about the RSVP card. Do I put in the number? Do I leave it blank for the guest to fill in? I feel like I overthink everything! But yes I agree how would she know that you are BOTH attending

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  • The Trap Selena
    Master March 2016
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    You can do just a check mark if you're writing your names.

    And to me, merriment = booze and dancing.

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  • Melody
    Master April 2017
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    I didnt write the names. She did.

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  • The Trap Selena
    Master March 2016
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    Oh! Do a 2 to be safe.

    ETA: the right words.

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  • Melody
    Master April 2017
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    Thats where I got thrown off! Im planning on leaving it blank so people can write in the names of those coming. I was confused that she filled it in.

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  • MrsNerd
    Master October 2016
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    Uh oh...I used the same RSVP card from Minted, different invite though. I just figured people would plan to be merry Smiley winking

    ETA I have a small guest so everyone knows if they have a plus one - it's almost all family anyway. I wondered about how to make that clear but wth such a small close group I don't anticipate an issue. I did not write names on the line.

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  • EM
    Master April 2017
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    I always thought "merriment to follow" was pretty common on wedding invites, maybe it is just on the stock ones though, come to think of it...

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  • MrsNerd
    Master October 2016
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    You're supposed to leave it blank then, right? It is weird that they wrote in your names

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  • Melody
    Master April 2017
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    @erin maybe it is? We are both designers so I haven't really looked at stock designs! Maybe its me.

    @futureMrsNerd I assumed you were.. Supposed to leave it blank.

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  • The Trap Selena
    Master March 2016
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    Yeah I assumed you're supposed to leave it blank. That's what I did and my guests filled in their names on their own. That way, if one half of the couple couldn't make it, the guest would just write one name and check the "accepts" line.

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  • Melody
    Master April 2017
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    I dont think she thought it through haha. I think I'll write 2 to help her out. Eta: just saw your edit, yea I am going to.

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  • kiandra
    Master October 2016
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    I left my cards blank hopefully my guest will know to fill in there name and check the appropriate line

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  • Melody
    Master April 2017
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    @kiandra I'm sure they will!

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  • MrsMcCoy
    VIP April 2016
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    I think merriment is pretty standard for an invitation.

    Ours said 'dinner, drinks & merriment to follow' on the bottom. It means fun, joyous, happiness, etc.


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  • Soon2BMrsB
    VIP October 2016
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    I wrote merriment. I didn't say dancing because I don't know if people will dance. The idea is drinking, socializing and music.

    I would write the #2 beside accept line (if you are attending). That's how we set ours up and how people are returning the cards.

    I think the invites are nice. I'd guess it's semi-formal. Maybe flats and a nice dress depending on the month. Look up the venue to see if that gives you any indication of how formal it is.

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  • MNA
    Master April 2018
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    Definitely would take that as more casual here.

    I agree with pp though, cocktail attire is a good idea, a lot of people don't understand how important matching invites to formality is. :/

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