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FutureMrsR
VIP May 2018

Married on a holiday weekend?

FutureMrsR, on January 5, 2017 at 1:31 PM

Posted in Planning 50

Would you attend a wedding set the Saturday before Memorial Day? We are very patriotic and were hoping to incorporate that, but my grandparents (the 2 only OOT guests) think it's too hard to travel that weekend. It's a six hour drive from their house to my hometown. I was thinking they would come...

Would you attend a wedding set the Saturday before Memorial Day? We are very patriotic and were hoping to incorporate that, but my grandparents (the 2 only OOT guests) think it's too hard to travel that weekend. It's a six hour drive from their house to my hometown. I was thinking they would come down on that Thursday, so I feel like traffic won't be that bad that day...? What do you all think?

My solution was to just do it the week before Memorial Day for their sake, but one of my best friends has a family wedding to attend that day and I really want her at mine as well. So now I'm back trying to figure out if Memorial Day weekend is feasible!

Thoughts? (p.s. Venue is a non-issue; we truly can decide whichever day we'd like)

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  • FutureMrsR
    VIP May 2018
    FutureMrsR ·
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    Hotels and stuff aren't an issue; my gp's are literally the only 2 people coming from out of town and they can stay in my parents' guest room

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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
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    Finally another date twin.

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  • FutureMrsIzzo
    Expert September 2017
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    Yes! I'm getting married the Friday before Labor Day and a lot of my guests are stoked. It gives people so much extra time especially if they have to travel. Just make sure you send out your save the dates early to give people enough of a heads up

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  • Miami2NorthernVA
    Master November 2017
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    I am fine with a memorial day weekend wedding. It isnt a major holiday like christmas or thanksgiving where I typically have family plans. I would check with your VIPs and if they can make it then I would to it. Like you said your grandparents can always come early.

    ETA: And as a bonus I have a 3 day weekend already so it gives me more time to have fun

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  • FutureMrsL
    Super September 2017
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    We are getting married the Saturday before labor day mostly because it was the only September date available at the venue we liked. But we actually were happy it was Saturday and not Sunday because it gives 2 days of recovery and travel home time for OOT guests!

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
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    Memorial Day weekend is the busiest travel weekend of the year. I think if you give your guests enough notice, it should be fine though!

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  • Flying
    Master May 2017
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    @Gymmie- was I not good enough for you?! Fine! (:

    @OP- considering my wedding is that weekend I say it's fine. My guests have all said they prefer it because they are coming from Ohio and I live close to the beach so they are turning it into a family vacation.

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  • 24kMagicWed
    VIP May 2017
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    I'm getting married that Saturday. We purposely chose that date because my FH has most family in California. A long weekend gives them more time to travel.

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  • Dreamer
    Master May 2013
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    Hotel rates for holiday weekends aren't always high. Our ceremony and reception were held in 2 different ballrooms, of a hotel. The hotel gave us a heavily discounted rate for our guests, for the entire 3-night weekend. About 2-dozen guests were actually from out of town; 2 couples traveled by air. We hosted 225 guests and 53 rooms were booked, for the night of the wedding, because the rates were so good.

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  • Kayt
    Just Said Yes May 2018
    Kayt ·
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    I always envisioned a May wedding, and initially after I got engaged, I wanted the wedding to be Memorial Day weekend (I'm a teacher, so the naturally long weekend seemed perfect). When FH and I started looking at venues/discussing dates, he was very adamantly against Memorial Day weekend. We opted for the weekend before instead. Now, I'm glad that we didn't choose Memorial Day weekend because I think the traveling would have definitely been an issue.

    On the other hand, I am very much a believer that it's your (and your FH's) wedding so you should do what you want!

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