Maid/Matron of honor?

You can call her whatever you feel comfortable with, lol. Does she have a preference?

I don't think so, no

Hey, we had a Dude of Honor. If you and she want Maid of Honor, who is to object?

Haha, I'm the bride

I have one of each. Matron has been married and my maid is engaged. So its up to you!

*shrugs* My younger sis was married, now divorced, and is still my Maid of Honour... so do whatever you feel like lol

It's your day. You can call her whatever you want. My cousin's going to be my Maid Of Honor too. She's 2 years older than me and married as well but I prefer Maid Of Honor over Matron.. Like you said, "Matron" sounds so much older.

You can call her what you want, however on the written programs and anything else that is written related to your wedding you should use her formal title as Matron it states that she is a married woman.

Nope. If calling her a "maid" makes her feel funny since she's married, you could just call her an "honor attendant." And I don't think being a "maid of honor" really conjures an image of someone who's necessarily unmarried anymore--it's just what you call the first-in-line bride's attendant these days.

Technically, she is a Matron of Honor, but, I don't think that there are any MOH Police, so you're safe. LOL!!

I am betting, that in most circles these days, not many people pay attention to Maid vs Matron.

PS...I just thought of something.....We do not called married Brides Maids "Brides Matrons". Ah, ha!

Its not about the age of the person, its Matron if she is married.

I really think it should be Matron. Thats like saying Mr. when someone is a doctor and it should be Dr. To me personally, I think it would be rude to call someone who is married a maid of honor. She is married, it is her title....she earned it.