Maid of Honor

My FH has two best friends, one is going to be the official best man and the other will be our witness and sing. Maybe you can do something like this.

Choose whoever you are closest to.

Is one married, if so she can be your matron of honor?

I was in the same situation and I made them both my MOHs. I told them together at my Bridesmaids Proposal Party and explained how much they meant to me and why I made the decision to ask them both. They were perfectly fine after my heartfelt explanation. Additionally, they both get to split the financial burden of my shower and bachelorette party (at least that's what they decided to do). Good luck!

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We already have a witness

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That's hard because believe it or not I close to the both of them. I can't choose between them.

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Neither are married and my sister in law is our matron of honor.

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Then don't have a maid of honor. It's not a necessity and then no one's feelings are hurt.

I had two maids of honor. I don't think only one needs to be made maid of honor.

Why not just make them both bridesmaids?

View Quoted Comment Are they both single or both married. If one is married you can ask her to be the matron of honor and the single girl to be the maid of honor

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They are both single lol well in relationships but not married.

Just dont have a MOH. There is no rule that says you have to have one. Personally, I have always hated the idea of maid/man of honor. It’s basically like publicly ranking your friendships. Why on earth would we do this?! I say skip the exclusionary titles and just have BMs and GMs

Can you pick a sibling or other family member ? Then neither of your two besties are left out. Or have two maids!

View Quoted Comment Since you already have a matron of honor then a maid of honor is totally unnecessary. Just have your friends be bridesmaids.

There is t a rule to how many maids of honor your have! Have them both be it!

Why can’t you have 2 MoH?

I had this problem too. I know a lot of people say you can have more than one but I personally don't like that. I only wanted One MOH. I went with my sister. I'm super close to her anyways so it worked out perfectly

View Quoted Comment This is a perfect explanation I love it!!