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Maid of honor

Melany, on February 10, 2020 at 10:25 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 15

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Hey gals!

I have a small situation that I need to find a solution on. So I live in PA and I have 2 bff’s. Bff #1 just moved to FL and I was her made of honor few months ago. Now I’m getting married this Oct and I had asked her to be my made of honor, however, I have another bff, bff #2, that lives here in PA close to me and she’s the one actually helping me with every single thing from my wedding, and she’s also always there for me. I really want bff #2 to be my made of honor but Idk how to tell bff#1 that I want bff #2 to be my made of honor. Can someone help me please!!!!

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Latest activity by Melany, on February 11, 2020 at 12:43 PM

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Megan · on February 10, 2020 at 11:01 PM
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You shouldn't be selecting your maid of honor based on who helps the most, it should be the person/people whom you feel closest to. It's fine to pick your second friend if you want, but it's also fine to have two maids of honor.
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Kendra · on February 10, 2020 at 11:11 PM
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Why not make them both! BFF 1 could be your matron since she is married and bff 2 could be the maid. That’s what i am doing with my sisters. My 1 sister i know won’t really be around to help much since she lives on the other side of the country and always busy with work but still selected her since we are close
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Melle · on February 10, 2020 at 11:11 PM
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I think it's fine to have two maids of honor
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Ciera · on February 10, 2020 at 11:28 PM
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I couldn’t decide between my sister & my best friend so I chose both 🤷🏼‍♀️ I love them equally and I want them to share the honor.
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Kristen · on February 11, 2020 at 7:24 AM
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I agree with the first poster that you shouldn't choose someone as your maid of honor just based on who helps you the most. Cuz if that were the case and one of my friends old weddings and I should have been the maid of honor because I was a little more helpful than her maid of honor. But at the same time her maid of honor was her longest friend since high school. Like others have said just have two Maids of Honor or matron of honor and a maid of honor. That is, nowadays.
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Alex · on February 11, 2020 at 8:53 AM
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Why can't they both be MOHs? I don't think distance should stop someone from being your MOH. My MOH lives 1,700 miles for me.
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Onya · on February 11, 2020 at 12:04 PM
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I don't think I want a maid of honor because I love all my braids maids equally (sisters 2/bestfriends 2/cousin 1 /closest friend 1) and mostly can't choose.
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Melany · on February 11, 2020 at 12:23 PM
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True! Thanks for ur opinion. It’s helping a lot on my decision.
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Melany · on February 11, 2020 at 12:24 PM
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I should of done that in the first place! That sounds easier! 😂 thx!
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Melany · on February 11, 2020 at 12:28 PM
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I’ve been thinking about that , making them both MOH but im not sure yet! Thx for ur opinion!
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Melany · on February 11, 2020 at 12:36 PM
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True and thats pretty much my situation bc bff #1 we’ve been friends since freshman yr and we almost 30years old. Thanks So much for ur help!
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Melany · on February 11, 2020 at 12:36 PM
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Got it! Thanks!
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Melany · on February 11, 2020 at 12:37 PM
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Cool Thanks!
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Melany · on February 11, 2020 at 12:39 PM
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Yes I’ll think about it! Bc I’m closer to one than the other. But thanks for ur help
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Melany · on February 11, 2020 at 12:43 PM
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I know, I am very close to both but had more memories with bff#1 than bff #2 even though I spend a lil more time now with #2. But thank you so much for replying. Ur thoughts have been really helpful!!!
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