Maid of honor dropped out!

You don't need attendants at all to get married. Focus on the fact that you're getting married to the one you love; the details really don't matter.

Oh wow! Sounds like your ex moh is really self centered! I wouldn't want a person like that by my side on such an important day. Why on earth would she need to be at a get together with your fmil n ffil? Thatis just odd to me unless other bp members were there.

I know how you feel about your mom, mine passed almost 7 years ago. It is rough seeing other brides have that special bonding with their moms. My moms bff is acting as the mob in my wedding. She was thrilled to do it and has been there through my entire life. Is it possible to ask your moms bff too? Maybe if you have a good relationship with your fmil, she would step in to help?

I would consider asking a current bm to step up to be your moh. I'm sure one of them would be happy to do so.

I agree with 2d bride, you do not need a MOH or BM. Focus on the fact that you have your FH to spend the entire day with and then many days after that. WW ladies and Gents are always on here to help out, so reach out if you need anything as well. Also I am not sure how close you are with you FMIL but if you are close maybe reach out to her for some support and guidance.

I agree - I have 3 attendants on my side, but they all live well over 4 hours away from me, so I have/am not getting any "help" from them. Reaching out to FMIL could be a great way for you to become even closer.

All that matters is you and your groom. Its disappointing but at least you know who your true friends are and as for the one with money issues maybe see if someone can front her the money that's what I did for MOH. it worked well weddings are expensive as we all know.

Thank you so much guys!! I don't know my real mom and I don't have any family. But I have to say I adore my fiances family. Yes I agree I don't need anyone there. I'm just really upset and hurt... I've never been one to ask for help I just girls I can share it with and so called friends I considered family. But I am not going to stress as much as I was just going to work with the girls who are there for me and that's it .. Thanks again for everything

Thank you so much guys!! I don't know my real mom and I don't have any family. But I have to say I adore my fiances family. Yes I agree I don't need anyone there. I'm just really upset and hurt... I've never been one to ask for help I just girls I can share it with and so called friends I considered family. But I am not going to stress as much as I was just going to work with the girls who are there for me and that's it .. Thanks again for everything