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Monica
Just Said Yes July 2020

Maid of Honor decision

Monica, on July 16, 2019 at 9:31 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 7

Hi all,

Wondering thoughts on not having a maid of honor. I'm having 6 bridesmaids total but I have a tight-knit group of three best friends and I feel like I just can't choose one over the other as a maid of honor without someones feelings being hurt. What are everyone's thoughts on this?? Do I just not have a MOH?

And if I go the route of not having a MOH, what are thoughts on a best man for my fiance?

Thanks in advance!!

7 Comments

Latest activity by Leslie, on June 18, 2020 at 3:18 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Not having a maid of honor is perfectly fine and it shouldn’t in any way mean that your FH can’t choose a best man.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    I agree with Caytlyn! It's okay to not have a MOH, but it's still okay if he has a best man Smiley smile

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  • A
    Savvy June 2019
    Alex ·
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    I chose a MOH out of my two closest friends and regretted it. I wish I had just called them both bridesmaids. I think having all bridesmaids, no MOH, but still having a best man is totally great.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Not having an moh is fine. We technically didn't have a best man for ours whereas I had two moh
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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Hi there Monica Smiley smile

    Welcome to the WeddingWire community!

    As the PPs mentioned, you totally don’t have to have a MOH and can still have a best man. Do what feels right to you and your FS Smiley smile

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  • Ashley
    Devoted July 2021
    Ashley ·
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    My fiance and I were discussing this over the weekend. I plan on asking between 4-6 girls (I'm not 100% on a couple of them just yet) and 2 of those girls I was debating between asking to be my maid of honor. My fiance suggested I just ask them both and let them share the responsibilities. I'm equally close with both of them and don't think I could choose so if I decide to go this way I won't have to. Nothing says you have to have a maid of honor though and if you would rather not choose, don't. Your future husband can still have a best man. It's your wedding and the beauty is you can do whatever you want! Good luck!

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  • Leslie
    Beginner May 2021
    Leslie ·
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    Hi! I'm in a very similar boat, and I was just wondering what you ended up choosing and how it all went? Hope it all went well!

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