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futuremrsshapard
Super June 2017

Lost motivation/excitement

futuremrsshapard, on March 9, 2017 at 12:01 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 22

So as my title says... I have basically lost all my motivation and excitement. Everyone keeps telling me I need to be enjoying this time but all I can think about is the amount of money that has been spent on this wedding and it's just gotten overwhelming. Between drama with my dad saying he isn't...

So as my title says... I have basically lost all my motivation and excitement. Everyone keeps telling me I need to be enjoying this time but all I can think about is the amount of money that has been spent on this wedding and it's just gotten overwhelming. Between drama with my dad saying he isn't coming to my mom getting hit with more bills, school, work, RCIA classes and the complete lack of motivation to stay fit... I'm just at a screw it point!!

I'm 85 days out, my bachelorette party is in a month and my bridal shower is in 6 weeks.

Anyone have any advice on how to get my motivation back?? Lol.

My mom and friends keep telling me to stop worrying about it all and have fun but I can't get out of my head.

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  • LynZLeigh
    VIP June 2017
    LynZLeigh ·
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    I had the same problem all month, and this week, I started going to Planet Beach to tan and I feel all better. That sounds so strange and even unhealthy as I type it, but it's honestly what happened. Also, ordering FH's wedding ring brought me back into the present.

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  • Paige
    Dedicated August 2017
    Paige ·
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    I haven't felt excitement at all in regards to the planning. I'm just not the girl that enjoys this stuff. If I can just fast forward to August that would be great!

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