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Kat
Dedicated October 2015

Let's say you want to uninvite someone...

Kat, on February 7, 2015 at 1:40 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 24

...because you didn't actually invite this person in the first place, but they incorrectly assumed that you would be sending them an invite. Do you... A.) Say nothing about it to this person but quietly send invites out to the people who *are* on your list? B.) Try to find a polite way to break the...

...because you didn't actually invite this person in the first place, but they incorrectly assumed that you would be sending them an invite.

Do you...

A.) Say nothing about it to this person but quietly send invites out to the people who *are* on your list?

B.) Try to find a polite way to break the news to this person that they aren't on the list.

C.) Start a fight with them so that they wouldn't want to come, anyway.

D.) Something else dramatic, or not.

24 Comments

  • Precious
    VIP August 2015
    Precious ·
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    Sometimes I like to run these by FH to find out what he thinks. He says C sounds like a fun way to mix things up.

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  • jewles322
    Master March 2015
    jewles322 ·
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    A. enough said.

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  • OGmelanie
    VIP July 2015
    OGmelanie ·
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    Ugh, I feel you. I'm having this problem too. This mouthy middle aged woman at work brazenly asked me why she didn't get an invite to our wedding while we were at the bar, drunk during a work Christmas party. Neither of us like her and now I have to hand out my invites secret agent style when the time comes so she doesn't see it. It will truly be a shit storm.

    Go with A as long as you can and if they bring it up again just tell them you can't afford it.

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  • OGSue
    Master August 2016
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    I would start with A, if she approaches you about not getting an invite then just say that you're keeping it small for budgetary reasons

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