Left At The Altar 😮

If there was an emergency, I would understand. But if I was being stood up, the relationship would absolutely be over. That is incredibly disrespectful and humiliating. I would not be able to move past that.

Oh, that's a strong DONE.

DH's BM had a great little video of asking DH how it felt to be getting married, day of, and DH just said, "FINALLY!" so, no worries about that over here.

But I've called off a wedding before. The Ex didn't believe it, and wanted to continue the relationship.

I had to, actually, literally, dump his stuff on his parents' lawn.

Over ! My god that would be so humiliating. And it would let me know something was direly wrong

View Quoted Comment Because if he's not ready to marry me after being together basically 10 years than he most likely never will be. Again emergency makes it different.

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Please elaborate.

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Thanks for sharing.

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Just to clarify, if he got down on one knee too soon the relationship would be over?

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I must have missed that episode.

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I agree that it's disrespectful and humiliating but is it worth throwing the relationship away for?

View Quoted Comment My husband would have made the choose to throw away the relationship by standing me up on our wedding day. That, to me, is not a relationship worth saving.

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Wow. Why did you call off the wedding? What does DH mean?

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I would also be humiliated?

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Oh, I see, that's a good point.

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I understand your perspective.

View Quoted Comment Dear Husband. Instead of Future.

My Ex?

He's an evil human being who landed himself in jail - rightfully so - multiple times.

View Quoted Comment No, if he got down on one knee, and then left me up by the altar because he wasn’t ready for the commitment it would be over! I’m saying if he wasn’t ready for marriage, he shouldn’t have proposed.