The Bride
Master March 2019

Left At The Altar 馃槷

The Bride, on September 17, 2019 at 6:46 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 36
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If your spouse stood you up at the altar would you still be engaged to him/her or is the relationship over?

Left At The Altar 馃槷 1

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  • Caytlyn
    Champion November 2019
    Caytlyn
    Hahahaha it would be over.
  • Brae
    VIP September 2019
    Brae
    Over. Unless he physically could not be there for some reason. (Medical emergency or something like that)
  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg
    It would depend on why he didn鈥檛 show.
  • L. Madhak
    Expert October 2020
    L. Madhak
    It would depend on the reason
  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra
    Lol I totally had a dream the week before the wedding that this happened. His reason was because he didnt want people to see him cry.

    I'm not sure what i would have done in real life if he left me like that. Guess it depends on why!
  • Jasmine
    Rockstar August 2020
    Jasmine Online

    I feel like it would depend on why he didn't show up. If we can talk it out and it's a valid reason, then maybe we can work on things but if not, I would probably give him space and collect my thoughts on whether or not I could even try again.

  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
    The Bride
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    Why would you end the relationship?

  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
    The Bride
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    Why would it be over?

  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
    The Bride
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    What are some circumstances when you'd stay? What are some circumstances when you'd leave?

  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
    The Bride
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    What's a good reason to stand you up at the altar?

  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
    The Bride
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    What if he said he still loved you but just wasn't ready to take that next step?

  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
    The Bride
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    I think most people would automatically end the relationship because of the embarrassment.

  • Jasmine
    Rockstar August 2020
    Jasmine Online
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    Which is totally understandable. Everyone's different. I feel in my heart that's what I would want to do but I can't really say what I would actually end up doing if that was to happen.
  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
    The Bride
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    It's such a tough decision to make.

  • Katie
    VIP November 2019
    Katie
    Relationship would be over
  • L. Madhak
    Expert October 2020
    L. Madhak
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    Anxiety or not ready for it. Yes I would be upset especially at the money wasted, and I'd be upset he didn't have the nerve to tell me. But that doesn't stop me from loving him. We have been together for 6 happy years.
  • Kaylee
    Dedicated August 2020
    Kaylee
    It would depend on the reasoning. If it was because 鈥渉e wasn鈥檛 ready to take that next step鈥 he shouldn鈥檛 have gotten down on one knee. If there was a medical emergency or he physically could not make it on time, we would work things out.
  • Keri
    Expert November 2019
    Keri
    I would pull a Carrie Bradshaw from Sex & The City and beat him with my boquet once I found him.
  • Jasmine
    Rockstar August 2020
    Jasmine Online
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    Very true. I just hope it never comes to that!

  • Cher Horowitz
    Rockstar December 2019
    Cher Horowitz

    As PP said, it'd really depend on the circumstances! Illness, emergency, etc. is fine

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