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VIP June 2015

Kind of a rant- Help me! My mom requested my bachelorette party weekend off..

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Breanna, on April 21, 2015 at 3:26 PM

My bachelorette party weekend is supposed to be crazy. We're going all out. That isn't something I can see myself doing with my mom.. I love her and love to have her around but it's just not a mom weekend. She text me today and said she requested the weekend off, my family doesn't really do that.. Except for obvious exceptions like wedding and funerals work comes first. That's just how we were raised. With that the way it is I can't just be like "um mom I don't want you to come" because she chose my party over her job that she loves! Maybe I'm overreacting, I dunno. I don't really want to party with my mom (she doesn't even drink..) but I don't want to hurt her feelings.

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Master October 2015
Brigit · on April 21, 2015 at 6:05 PM
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Haha i had this conversation with my friend the other day, my mom wants to come to mine. my bachelorette will probably be more like a girls weekend so i actually have realized that i dont have an issue with her coming.
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Super July 2015
Mandigurl · on April 21, 2015 at 6:12 PM
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Who is planning the bachlorette? Can't they tell her it might not be appropriate?
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VIP June 2015
Breanna · on April 21, 2015 at 6:16 PM
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We're going to Portland @promike my sister is planning @mandigurl
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Super June 2015
bridalfever · on April 21, 2015 at 8:06 PM
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Well my step-mom, aunts and local friends all wanted to be part of the bachelorette- so Friday we are doing a happy hour locally. Saturday just me and my BM's are going down the shore for the partay.
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Super July 2015
Mandigurl · on April 21, 2015 at 8:19 PM
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Can your sister talk to your mom about it?
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Master May 2016
Mrs. Nicole · on April 21, 2015 at 8:48 PM
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My mom is pissed that I said she wont be there. Its not that shes not fun or conservative, but she makes it a point to tell me how "annoying" i am when im drunk. She showed up unannounced to FH and Is new years party at 1am and did the same thing when I was drunk at my own house. I dont need to be worried about my mom being all weird and judgy seeing her 27 year old being drunk with friends.
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Devoted May 2015
Private User · on April 21, 2015 at 11:02 PM
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I bet she is going so she can watch over you girls, and make sure you come home safe.
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Beginner May 2015
dwilson15 · on April 22, 2015 at 4:25 AM
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My mom was the same way. And I'm like you... really don't want my mother around me when I'm going to be drinking hah. I was just honest with her and said, "this is a time for just my girls. If you want, we could do a mother-daughter weekend soon, but this is just me and them." She was a bit hurt but after a couple days she said she understood where I was coming from.
Hope it all works out for you! Honestly is the best thing you could do!
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Dedicated June 2015
valerie · on April 22, 2015 at 4:34 AM
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My mom is coming to my batch party but I also invited her. I would say go with it you might be surprised how much your mom might need this as much as you do
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Super May 2015
BringOnMay! · on April 22, 2015 at 7:29 AM
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If it had been an option, I wanted to invite my mom and fmil to join us for dinner or something, but it wasn't for us. Maybe you can say she can do that?
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VIP September 2015
Jeleebeenz · on April 22, 2015 at 10:51 AM
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I only went to my dinner when my DDs' were having their bachelor parties. NO WAY did I want to be the bar crawling. Have you told your mom that penis toys might be involved? Sometimes shock value works wonders on us moms.
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