We're expecting maybe a dozen kids to be at the wedding, with a wide variety in ages. We have an option of ordering a kid's meal for them or letting them eat at the buffet with the adults, but the venue needs to know which we're doing in advance. We thought we would just leave it up to the individual parents to decide which is best for their kids. Is that ok, or will the kids whose parents choose one thing be upset when they see other kids eating something else?
Also, for the kid's meals, is cheese pizza, hot dogs or chicken fingers a better choice? They all come with fries, except the pizza.