Hi Everyone!
My wedding is just under a year out and I’m kicking things into high gear. I’ve been giving our guest list a once over and what I had hoped to keep under 80 I’ll now be happy to keep under 100.
I made the decision a while ago to only invite a select few children who are very much a part of my life. I have a couple of cousins who I rarely see who have 2-3 kids each, most of whom I’ve never met. My aunt seems to think that if I don’t invite their kids I’ll be offending them and they probably won’t come. Honestly if those cousins didn’t show up I wouldn’t be heart broken since I haven’t seen them in years. My concern is that my aunt, whom I very much want to be there may not come in solidarity with her kids if I don’t invite the children, or will have her feelings hurt.
I’ve been racking my brain to come up with a solution, but beyond creating roles in the wedding party for 6 children and telling everyone the only kids invited are in the wedding party, I’m at a loss.
What would you do in this situation? Help!
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