Kicked out of the wedding party...

How incredibly rude!

What the heck? That's almost worse than when there is some major drama involved. Sorry that happened to you!

That's ridiculous! It's totally okay to have uneven sides in the wedding party. We are having uneven sides and I really don't care one bit. I would be very upset if I were you!

Wow. So the bride sacrificing her bridesmaids so the bridal party will look even? That's not what a bridal party is about. She sounds like a an awful friend. I would not have gone to the bridal shower after being treated like that.

Oh no, your "friend" was very rude. It's perfectly acceptable to have uneven sides! We are. Ugh, I'm sorry.

Oh my god. This is horrible. I am so sorry this happened and I commend you for being so nice about. Are you still going to the wedding? Or going to be her friend even?

This is incredibly rude!!! My god, you handled this better than I probably would have.

That's a terrible reason to get cut from the BP. Maybe consider it a blessing in disguise? Now you can clearly see just how superficial she is. I don't think I'd consider her that good of a friend anymore.

Your friend is very rude. If it were me, I would re-evaluate my friendship with this girl.....

And you still went to the shower?!

You are a way better person than I am.

Maybe the bride is the reason all these groomsmen keep dropping out.

I think you dodged a bullet. I'd really reconsider your friendship here.

This woman has never heard of an uneven bridal party? What the heck. I also would consider you a brave woman for attending the bridal shower

I swear there has to be a facility where truckloads of babies are being dumped off near where large packs of wolves live. People don't act civilised; they act like they were raised by wolves. I'd dump this rude chick as a friend.

Did you or your friend have the bridesmaid dress before you were kicked out? If, so I would wear it to the wedding and tell every guest who looked my way, how you were kicked out. Your friend is something else.

That's so rude. I'm sorry she did this to you. You are a better friend to her than she deserves.

Oh my gosh! That's incredibly rude, and the bride needs to pay you back for literally any wedding related purchase you have made.

Then she needs to join wedding wire and learn how to host a wedding without being atrocious to her friends.

Gross. Probably bullet dodged...she sounds crazy. Imagine having to plan a party for her, yikes!

Have you spent any money on bridesmaid attire, pre-wedding parties or anything else related to her wedding? If so, you should demand it back. This bride is awful and is clearly not a friend.

I also like the idea of wearing the BM dress to the wedding! Although, I would not show up to that wedding.

It was very awkward to say the least. No we had not yet bought the bridesmaid dresses, though that would have been a great idea if we had! Lol It was actually my question to her at the engagement party about what kind of dress she wanted that led to her telling me the news. I'm not really heart broken over it tbh but it bothers me a lot more now after attending the bridal shower.

So your friend is more concerned about the look of her wedding than her friends? Nice.