I?t seems difficult to keep eloping a secret. Were you able to keep I?t quiet or did you tell people? Everyone knows you're engaged and if you don't talk much about a wedding they start to question you. My response was we're still making decisions but lately I've said we're probably eloping at some point but not giving details. Most people are going to figure I?t out when they realize we're going away for a few days. Do you think we should be upfront and tell people ahead of time or still make excuses?