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MrsRidley
VIP January 2018

Junior Bridesmaid or Flower Girl?

MrsRidley, on August 14, 2017 at 8:57 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 47

Is 12 too old to be a flower girl? I feel that she's too young to be a Junior Bridesmaid, but she's too old to be a flower girl. I was looking into this dress for the flower girls, but I feel like it's too childish for a 12 year old. The BMs are wearing the second dress in the comments, but I feel...

Is 12 too old to be a flower girl? I feel that she's too young to be a Junior Bridesmaid, but she's too old to be a flower girl. I was looking into this dress for the flower girls, but I feel like it's too childish for a 12 year old. The BMs are wearing the second dress in the comments, but I feel like that's too grown for her age.


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  • J
    Dedicated November 2007
    Joanne ·
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    A 12 year old should be a junior bridesmaid.

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  • Mrs.B2B
    Super March 2018
    Mrs.B2B ·
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    My 2 daughters are flower girls one is 6&the other will be 15. I think age doesnt matter and they'll still be very beautiful

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  • FutureMrsPerez
    Savvy December 2018
    FutureMrsPerez ·
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    My daughter is 12 (she'll be 13 by the time of wedding) and she will be my Jr bridesmaid

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  • Anshea M.
    Dedicated October 2017
    Anshea M. ·
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    My niece is 10 and a junior bridesmaid. She will be wearing a different dress in the same color as the "senior" bridesmaids.

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  • FutureMrsN14
    Super July 2018
    FutureMrsN14 ·
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    I think she can be a flower girl! Or if you/her/her mom would prefer her to be a Jr. Bridesmaid I think that is fine too! Even if she is a flower girl, she could wear the same colors as the bridesmaids and just chose a more age appropriate dress. All the flower girls (she had 7! all different ages) in my Bff's wedding just wore blush, not white.

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  • Beachy
    VIP November 2017
    Beachy ·
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    My daughter was my sister's jr bridesmaid at 10. She's my MOH. She is 12 now. She's wearing the same dress as my girls but maybe with a few extra alterations.

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  • K
    VIP May 2025
    KRAIN ·
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    I don't think title matters. My FGs are 10 and just under 2. The oldest will help the youngest.

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